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We at Cuddle Bug Baby Products are committed to helping people raise children in loving, responsible ways. We understand there are nearly as many parenting styles as their are parents! Parenting is a tough job, and we all can use a little help and perspective now and then. We hope you find these articles of value. If you would like to contribute an article or have comments please e-mail us.
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Mom, bring Spot!: The Importance of Security Items for Children”
By Cherie Hammer
Owner, Cuddle Bug Baby Products
I’ll bet you remember your security blanket or comfort item; I certainly remember mine. “Spot” still maintains a place of honor in my bedroom. He was made out of leopard-print corduroy, lovingly hand sewn by my mother’s dearest friend. His tummy is still indented from me using him as a pillow well into my grade school years.
I can still vividly remember the day in first grade when I broke my elbow. Determined to be the first girl in the class to skip one on the horizontal ladder bars, I swung, missed and landed badly on my arm, twisting my elbow in a most gruesome way. Sitting in the Principal’s office holding my throbbing arm, I overhead the secretary call my mother to pick me up. I’ll never forget her words, “Mrs. Wolfe, you need to come down here right away and get Cherie. She’s broken her arm and I’m sure from the look of it, it will require surgery.” Well with that, I naturally started screaming bloody murder. The secretary gave me the phone and I can still remember sobbing the only words I could get out, “Mom (sob, sob). Bring (sob, sob) Spot (sob)...”
Many babies choose blankets, stuffed animals, or dolls as their “lovey” or comfort item--the thing they need to snuggle up with to sleep or cling to in times of stress. Most child experts advocate the use of a comfort item. Babies naturally begin to bond to a blanket or stuffed animal, regardless of the parents' unique parenting style. It is important to note that attachment to a lovey is not a sign that parents have failed to adequately nurture their child or that they have not bonded. Actually, the opposite is true. Parents who respond to a baby's needs for assurance will instill confidence and self-esteem in their little one. It is this inner strength that will give the child confidence to slowly learn the needed skill of self-comfort.
The Good Housekeeping Illustrated Book of Pregnancy and Baby Care states: “By age eight or nine months, most children form a strong attachment to a favorite toy, a blankets, or a special object. This powerful need for something cuddly will only grow stronger after the first birthday. Experts say it’s a wonderful way for a toddler to cope with the fears and frustrations of growing up, so don’t worry about it or try to persuade your baby to give it up. Keep it handy. Tell baby sitters about it, and be assured that having a security blanket will help her as she separates from you. If she adopts a blanket, cut it in half or buy a duplicate one, so that you have a spare should she lose the original or when it needs to be washed.”1
Research by to the American Psychological Association in 1997 showed that “bringing along a child’s security blanket, (or other ‘security item’) may actually make routine medical exams go smoother when mom is unable to accompany the child.” They tested stress levels of children with and without their blankets and with and without their mothers. They found that when children needed medical attention and their mothers could not be with them, having the security blanket brought the children’s stress level to approximately the same level it would be had the mother been there. 2 This shows the very powerful affect such seemingly little things can have on a child.
If a child is going to bond to a security item, it generally happens sometime late in their first year or sometime during their second year of life. As with all things with babies, routine seems to help. Obviously a parent can’t force a child to bond with a certain item. But if a blanket or teddy become part of baby’s regular bedtime routine, she will more likely attach to it since it is something she’s familiar with. If your child seems drawn to a particular item, incorporate it into your daily nap and sleeping routine.
Security blankets don’t substitute completely for parental love and support. They are, however, for many children a natural part of childhood. The world can be a scary place to a baby or toddler: night times are dark, wind rattles the windows, dreams seem no different than reality, and doctors have to give shots. Having a favorite security blanket or item can be a source of comfort for both the child and the parent. And when you are all grown up, they make a nice decoration for your room!
Cherie Hammer
Owner, Cuddle Bug Baby Products
www.cuddlebugbaby.com
chammer@cuddlebugbaby.com
1 The Good Housekeeping Illustrated Book of Pregnancy & Baby Care, Hearst Books, New York, 1990, page 163.
2 American Psychological Associate Press Release, August 8, 1997.
Bio:
Cherie Hammer is a San Francisco Bay Area native and resident. After nearly a 15-year career on Wall Street and working as a senior product manager and producer with several high tech consumer software companies, she left the corporate world completely after the birth of her first son. A few months later she launched her first entrepreneurial venture, Cuddle Bug Baby Products (formerly The Sweet Pea Company), which produces unique accessories for babies and toddlers. She has an MBA from the University of California, Berkeley. She is married to a wonderfully understanding and supportive man who is an executive at a Silicon Valley start-up company. They have one son and one daughter. Her web site is http://www.cuddlebugbaby.com
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Mom, Bring Spot! - The Importance of Security Items for Children
Many babies choose blankets, stuffed animals, or dolls as their “lovey” or comfort item--the thing they need to snuggle up with to sleep or cling to in times of stress...
Heart Matters: Loving Your Family
February is a month that speaks of the heart! We pass aisles of valentines, cards, flowers, and gifts and may wonder where all the romance has gone in our lives especially if we have little ones tugging at our pants legs! As days of flowers and hearts gone by for many of us, we can reassess what we as families can do to nurture and celebrate this season of love!...
HEART MATTERS
by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski
February, 2000

February is a month that speaks of the heart! We pass aisles of valentines, cards, flowers, and gifts and may wonder where all the romance has gone in our lives especially if we have little ones tugging at our pants legs! As days of flowers and hearts gone by for many of us, we can reassess what we as families can do to nurture and celebrate this season of love! Priorities in our lives change, and I would like to offer some ideas we as families can look at this month.

Celebrate the family! Are there things we can do in today's busy life of commuting, often two parent working, our central family living away? It is often more challenging, but I feel critical for health and wellness. Take time to listen! What are our children, our spouses, our parents telling us? Do they need something we aren't giving right now, perhaps more time or just a smile or hug. Are there subtle or maybe not so subtle signs that we have been missing by being busy! I had a major wake-up call with my son when I was working full-time at my church as a youth education director. My son who was very well behaved in school and even usually at home would act up embarrassingly at every church event! It took a few times before I realized the message he was sending me that the church work took me away from him. That was a new beginning for me in learning more balance in my work and home life.

Are our children getting to know their grandparents, especially if they are long-distanced? Perhaps finding creative communication might be a fun and exciting way to keep the lines of communication open. Are their grandparents on e-mail? Many seniors are today and are surprised at what a joy it is to communicate with their children and grandchildren. If not, find a way to touch a heart long-distance! Regular cards, pictures, drawings are always welcomed and enjoyed on the grandparents refrigerators!

One of the key things we can do to create a healthy heart is to create a priority list! What are the things truly important to our family? What do we value? People and our health usually come to mind as our biggest priority, and often they are what gets lost in the hurry up world we live in.

And while we are on the subject of health, let this new year be one we take charge of our health! There is so much health news today that we are truly in denial if we choose not to look at our health as a priority. There are steps we can take to bring a 'healthier lifestyle' for ourselves and our families! Moms and dads want to be around for grandchildren; so what can we do to do our part to create this for ourselves! Obviously, there are no guarantees in life and even if we do everything we can, something can happen! But statistics are proving that we can make a difference -- so let's make that difference! Let's look at a few positive health steps we can take:

(1) If you smoke, make a commitment to stop this year! Your heart, and your children's health and even your budget will thank you!

(2) Create a space for yourself to become more active -- walk once a day - climb steps, dance, get a videotape - just MOVE that body! We don't need expensive exercise equipment or membership in a spa to make a commitment to MOVE! Exercise helps our heart and our stress levels! The endorphins help get out us out of 'the funks' and teach our children the value of exercise. So MOVE THAT BODY!

(3) Cut down on fat, white flour and sugar products! Sugar and white flour also make us feel low energy! Eat more fruits, fiber and veggies every day and it is surprising how we begin to crave healthy choices.

(4) Supplement -- doctors and the scientists are telling us that our food supply is not supplying us with adequate nutrients; they just aren't in our soil any longer. Choose a 'bioavailable' nutrient that breaks down and gets into your system. The studies are showing the most essential nutrients we need more of are a good multivitamin, vitamin E, vitamin C and b-complex. It is true -- if we don't have our health, we can't enjoy life at all.

(5) Nurture and nourish yourself and others. Tell others you care - don't wait till tomorrow -- hug your kids, hug your dog, hug your spouse and be good to yourself!

February is a time for being heart-smart! We can reassess our priorities and bring more balance and joy in our lives through a few simple changes. We can begin today -- one at a time and know we are on our way to not just a more nurturing month of February but through the whole year!
©2000 Suzanne Rose Lubkowski. Used by permission of author.

Contributed by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, Wellness Consultant
Integrative Wellness
Contact zannrose@aol.com or visit
http://www.shaklee.net/integrativewellness


Sleepy Time: Helping Little Ones to Sleep
Most of us moms and dads have experienced one time or another a sleepless baby or child! I wish I would of had a bag of sleep solutions at my disposal that I now have. You learn a lot in twelve years!...

SLEEPY TIME
by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski

Most of us moms and dads have experienced one time or another a sleepless baby or child! When my own son was an infant, that child did not believe in sleeping. Interestingly now at twelve, he loves to sleep. I wish I would of had a bag of sleep solutions at my disposal that I now have. You learn a lot in twelve years!

It's important to know that you may need to try several different tips before you find one or more that works for your child. Experiment and try to be patient in the process!

First of all, experts advise parents to have a set sleep schedule. Going to bed at the same time every night is the first step. Have a relaxing ritual such as a warm bath, stories, favorite stuffed toys, lullabies, and music.

Be sure the child is dressed for the temperature. I remember having my son dressed so warmly that someone (probably my mom in law if I remember correctly) said that no wonder he has that baby rash, he is dressed too warm! He was a late summer baby and I had him dressed like it was February! Also, children's own body temperatures vary. My daughter does not like covers on at night. She is likely to have no covers and even take clothing off in the middle of the night if she gets too warm.

Soft cuddly clothing can make an infant or young child feel snug and secure. Most newborns and babies need that secure feeling around them. In addition, soft gentle music or lullabies help many babies with security. As children get older, stories and tapes are beneficial. This ritual is helpful at any age, even the older child. My children and I have established a ritual of my sharing a story when I grew up. My son usually asks for a story every night. I see this as a special time and an opportunity for them to even pass these stories on to their children some day.

It's important to be aware of what foods and drinks the child consumes before bedtime. There is a theory that milk (except for infants) should not be taken as it contributes to bed wetting; despite the anecdote of warm milk that we have heard for many years. Caffeine and sugar are some chemicals that keep eyes wide awake past bedtime.

In summary, a few steps that might assist children and parents get a better night's rest include:
-- establish a regular bedtime schedule
-- create rituals and special wind-down activities to signal the child and
his/her body it is time to slow down for the day
-- be cognizant of food and drink intake after dinner
-- be patient and ........ remember my twelve year old now loves sleeping!

For moms and dads who have challenges sleeping many of these tips are also useful. In addition, calcium magnesium and or valerian herb are very beneficial for relaxing tense muscles and getting a restful sleep.

SLEEP WELL!

©2000 Suzanne Rose Lubkowski. Used by permission of author.

Contributed by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, Wellness Consultant
Integrative Wellness
Contact zannrose@aol.com or visit
http://www.shaklee.net/integrativewellness
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SLEEPY TIME
by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski

Most of us moms and dads have experienced one time or another a sleepless baby or child! When my own son was an infant, that child did not believe in sleeping. Interestingly now at twelve, he loves to sleep. I wish I would of had a bag of sleep solutions at my disposal that I now have. You learn a lot in twelve years!

It's important to know that you may need to try several different tips before you find one or more that works for your child. Experiment and try to be patient in the process!

First of all, experts advise parents to have a set sleep schedule. Going to bed at the same time every night is the first step. Have a relaxing ritual such as a warm bath, stories, favorite stuffed toys, lullabies, and music.

Be sure the child is dressed for the temperature. I remember having my son dressed so warmly that someone (probably my mom in law if I remember correctly) said that no wonder he has that baby rash, he is dressed too warm! He was a late summer baby and I had him dressed like it was February! Also, children's own body temperatures vary. My daughter does not like covers on at night. She is likely to have no covers and even take clothing off in the middle of the night if she gets too warm.

Soft cuddly clothing can make an infant or young child feel snug and secure. Most newborns and babies need that secure feeling around them. In addition, soft gentle music or lullabies help many babies with security. As children get older, stories and tapes are beneficial. This ritual is helpful at any age, even the older child. My children and I have established a ritual of my sharing a story when I grew up. My son usually asks for a story every night. I see this as a special time and an opportunity for them to even pass these stories on to their children some day.

It's important to be aware of what foods and drinks the child consumes before bedtime. There is a theory that milk (except for infants) should not be taken as it contributes to bed wetting; despite the anecdote of warm milk that we have heard for many years. Caffeine and sugar are some chemicals that keep eyes wide awake past bedtime.

In summary, a few steps that might assist children and parents get a better night's rest include:
-- establish a regular bedtime schedule
-- create rituals and special wind-down activities to signal the child and
his/her body it is time to slow down for the day
-- be cognizant of food and drink intake after dinner
-- be patient and ........ remember my twelve year old now loves sleeping!

For moms and dads who have challenges sleeping many of these tips are also useful. In addition, calcium magnesium and or valerian herb are very beneficial for relaxing tense muscles and getting a restful sleep.

SLEEP WELL!

©2000 Suzanne Rose Lubkowski. Used by permission of author.

Contributed by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, Wellness Consultant
Integrative Wellness
Contact zannrose@aol.com or visit
http://www.shaklee.net/integrativewellness

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TALKING ABOUT SAFETY
Beth Kalish
www.HankyKids.com
I just got to thinking today about the many kids who are never taught the basics. I was amazed to see how many young children are not in car seats, talking to strangers, and left alone.

In today society we are forced to discuss many issues with our children at a younger age. At the young age of 3, it was necessary to talk to my daughter about strangers. Who to talk to and what to do if you are in a bad situation. Now, my daughter, who is 6, has asked me about drugs, drinking and smoking. I know that these topics of discussion are a little out of left field, but I am gathering they need to be addressed.

Since my daughter needed to have this discussion, I wanted to share what I have told her:

Don't ever accept candy, cigarettes, or a beverage from someone you don't know, it's not safe. Because, it could be drugs, alcohol or something else that is not good for you.

If you are under 6 years old you must be in a car seat. Many parent's are unaware that it is a law that until they are 60 pounds all children should be in some type of car seat system. Just because they don't want to sit in a car seat doesn't mean that their safety isn't an issue. When all else fails and the argument comes up, tell them that it is a policeman's rule. If that still doesn't work, take them to the local police station and have them ask a police officer. (I find in some cases, it is easier to blame someone else.)

Since it is hard to determine who is a stranger that might take you and the nice couple in the neighborhood, she is only able to talk to people she doesn't know her height and smaller. Avoids any gray area.

If and when we are ever separated in a store, two rules:
1) I will never leave the store to look for her, so she should never ever leave the store.
2) Statistics show that a women is less likely to abduct a child, so she is to find a women who looks like a mom and she will help her get to me.

If she ever feels uncomfortable with any situation, she will not be forced comply. They have to feel they have a voice and it must be respected.

If anyone is ever trying to take her, she has been told to yell "FIRE". Most parents are used to telling their kids to yell for "Help" but, most people don't want to help but are always drawn to a "FIRE". I can't explain it but, it works.

It is sad that these things need to be discussed. I don't ever remember any of these things being an issue as a child. The worst I had to worry about was being a kid. But, times have changed and we should take nothing to chance. It might be hard to have these talks but, better now before something happens. Please take the 10 minutes now to have this talk. They will appreciate it.


Beth Kalish ©2000
www.HankyKids.com
BUILDING CHILDREN'S CHARACTER
by Barbara Joy Clarke
CHARACTER is:
A belief in an absolute system of right and wrong, combined with the will to do what is right regardless of the cost. Therefore, a person with character will say, "What's the right thing to do?" and a person with NO character will say, "what's in it for me?". You automatically have respect for a person with 'character'. Character deals with the matters of the heart--the inner you, not the outer you. The foundation of a person is their character. When you are an adult, you should proudly be able to say…I'm a person of character, I don't do what's wrong." In the past, society defined success in terms of character--what a person stood for, what a person believes, and the condition of the heart of the person. Unfortunately, in today's society, the shift is from character to achievement, to performance, to doing. It's no longer what the condition of your heart is, it's how well you perform. We are living in a culture today when we come to a fork in the road where we have to choose character over achievement, most choose achievement. When that happens, there is an automatic change in a person's ethics or values. We are slowly eliminating from our thinking and our line of sight the very thing we need most as individuals and as a nation.
Why is it important for Parents to Build 'Character' in their children? Your children need to know within their hearts what is 'right' and what is 'wrong'.
Children who have been taught 'character' by mom and dad automatically know 'right' from 'wrong' and have the will to practice what is the right thing to do regardless of the cost to them. The key is to instill in your children the very necessary "moral and value" system that will build character and discipline. This will enable your children to make the 'right choices' in their lives and have the will to practice them when pressured by outside influences, namely peer pressure.
Here are some A-Z guidelines:
A is for Accountability - Hold your children accountable for their behavior.
Making your children accountable for their behavior teaches your kids right from wrong. It also teaches your kids that we are all allowed to make choices and that you expect them to make the right choice because they are a person of 'character'. All children who have character make the right choice…guide your children to make the right choice. Here's an example…Your child is lying to you and you are absolutely sure of this, simply say to your child, "We do not tell lies in this house, we always tell the truth." Let your kids know lying is not acceptable. If they made the wrong choice by lying, take away TV privileges for a while. Tell them the right choice is telling the truth. Keep it simple, be consistent, take away a privilege, and your kids will quickly learn to be accountable for their behavior and make the right choice.
C is for Character - Help your son or daughter become a person with character, to be able to know right from wrong and have the will to practice it.
"Our society desperately needs men and women of 'character'" This profound statement was made by me as a wake-up call to all parents worldwide as a result of the violence and killings at Littleton High School in Colorado. Children with 'character' know automatically in their hearts that being violent is not the right thing to do. But first, children must be taught right from wrong by their parents. I encourage all parents to build character in their children. By age 8 children should know right from wrong so that they can make the right decisions when pressured by their friends to make the wrong choices and so that they can now make the right choices when parents are not around to guide their children. Our society is the most informed and well educated society by far, yet unfortunately, drug use of our young people is on the rise. More parents are becoming alarmed and concerned then ever before and asking themselves the question…"Gosh, I hope my child doesn't do drugs and become a burden on me and society! A child of character knows within their heart that it is "cool" to say NO to drugs. He or she will NOT be influenced to take drugs because mom and dad have taught him/her 'character', it's as simple as that!
Here's a perfect example of a kid that has no trouble saying NO to drugs. This is Ryan's story. "Ryan is in grade 10. One day, out of the blue, one of his many friends offers him a smoke. His friend pushes him to try it before it's too late. His friend says to Ryan, "Come on, man, we haven't got much time before next class." But Ryan is not about to be rushed. First of all, he doesn't know if it's a cigarette or drugs. He suspects drugs, but he really doesn't care because he is not about to smoke anything. He's clean and has decided and made the right choice that he will stay that way. After a bit of thought, Ryan says to his friend, "No, I don't want a smoke." The friend says, "Why not, it will make you feel good, come on man, try it". This time Ryan realizes this so-called friend doesn't really really care about him. He just wants to bring him down to his level. That will make him happy. Ryan stands his ground and says to his friend with full authority, "Thanks, but no thanks, I don't do drugs, it's not the right thing to do". The friend shrugs his shoulders and says simply, "Your loss". Ryan handled this scenario like a pro. Any parents would be proud to have a son like Ryan. He has 'CHARACTER'.
F is for Forgiveness - Practice forgiveness regularly and teach the importance of it.
Teaching your children to forgive others is the best way to achieve peace of mind and live a stress-free life. A great example of this is as follows. Your daughter has had a disagreement with her friend and swears she will never talk to her again because her friend hurt her in some way by saying something nasty to her. Simply say to your daughter, "I think it would be wonderful if you forgave your friend. I'm sure she is sorry she said those things to you. I'm sure she would be very happy and relieved to get a call from you". Always encourage your children to have a humanitarian attitude and forgive those people who hurt them. Forgiveness is a wonderful trait that is truly admired by many but unfortunately is so very hard for most people to do. Children with 'character' find it easy to forgive those who have done them wrong and will work hard to make things right with their friends.
H is for Humor - Make sure you keep your sense of humor. Laugh with your children often.
Laughing with your children as often as you can is not only enjoyable for you and your children but more important it is very healthy as well. Laughter gets rid of impurities and is good for everyone's well-being. Children come out with funny things and are a joy to behold. Make simple puppets together out of felt squares, put on some music and dance your little hearts out, with the puppets of course. Whatever project or simple enjoyment you choose to have with your children, make sure everyone is having a good time and that you laugh a lot together, while you are having fun and truly enjoying your children.
No is for No - Use it and mean it
We all know it's difficult to say NO to our children at times, but saying no when you think the occasion requires it, is a must for all parents. Do not let your children intimidate you. Just in case you didn't know it, your children are smart you know and know all the tricks to get mom and dad to change their minds…all they have to do is whine and wear you down, right? Parents must exercise their parental authority over their children. Why? If you do not say "no" when it must be no and stick to your guns, your children will not become children of 'character' but will instead become unruly, disrespectful and lawless and most likely than not become our next citizens of troubled adults. Make sure that by also saying "no" to your kids, that you look for ways to avoid the resentment and hostility that might build up in your children. Another great example:- For instance, if you have a child who is slow to get up in the morning, don't criticize them. Instead, tell your child breakfast is at 7:30. It is 7:30 now. Don't say…"you better hurry if you want to have breakfast at all". If all fails, buy them an alarm clock and if that fails, let them take the heat at school
for being late - the best experience of all - humiliation for not taking the responsibility to make sure they are on time for school. After all, that is their responsibility now, you have enough to do.
R is for Respect - Show your children respect, teach them respect and earn their respect.
When talking to your children, talk to them nicely to show them that you feel they are worthwhile people. Do NOT shout, scream or yell at your children. Parents must set the example, so their children will learn from their example. Don't ever forget, parents, children watch you, they want to be like you. Remember also…children are just little people, extensions of what we ourselves once were, they don't know any better…it's up to mom and dad to teach them and guide them so they will know better from your example, it's as simple as that! Praise your children often for showing respect to others and other people's property and nature. Say to you child, "I'm very proud to be your mother/father because you are so kind and nice to everyone and show good manners to your brothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts, uncles and even total strangers. You are a good person." Watch the pride on your child's face. They will just beam! Children can never get enough praise from mom and dad. Praise also goes a long way in creating that amazing child you are raising to become instead an amazing child with 'character' who will do you proud.
Author's Bio:- Barbara Joy Clarke is a qualified educator, educating both parents and children for over 30 years. Her parenting guidebook evolved at the request of parents themselves who were confused about what to teach their children. Barbara Joy listened to parents and has written an outstanding A-Z Self-Help Parenting GuideBook for all parents worldwide regardless of race or religion. Dr. H. Gardner of the Continuing School of Education at Harvard University endorses her book and says it's the best parenting book to come along in 40 years. Parents worldwide are praising Barbara Joy's wisdom; not only for giving them the tools to become good parents, but taking the confusion out of parenting and guiding parents to raise 'amazing' kids with 'character'. She has appeared on radio, television and her book reviewed in magazines. Barbara Joy and her family live in Ontario, Canada. Barbara Joy has received the prestigious national and international Parent to Parent "Adding Wisdom" Award due to her awesome work in helping to make this world a better place for all families and individuals. To discover more important facts on HOW TO HAVE AMAZING KIDS, visit her web site at http://www.guideyourchildren.com
Always Remember……A Child's BEST Advocate is always an informed and educated PARENT

A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON CHILD SAFETY
by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski

Did you know that each year, poison control centers report more than one million unintentional poisonings among children under six. Teaching children about poisons with a 'Mr. Yuk' sticker is one thing we can do. However, there is more as parents that we can do to insure that very few if any toxic chemicals are even in our homes!

A closer look at the ingredients found in most homes would label these chemicals as unwanted house guests! Let's examine a few of these:

* formaldehyde which is a substance in disinfectants and germicides. This can cause skin irritation and anemia. Higher doses can cause vertigo, coma, and even death.

* sodium hydroxide (lye) which is in drain cleaner and oven cleaner...This is corrosive to all tissues.

* phenol which is a disinfectant which if ingested or inhaled can cause flushing, dizziness, headache, depression, nausea, vomiting and coma.

* ammonia which is a degreasing agent and cleaner. Short exposures can cause irritation to the mucous membranes of nose, throat and lungs. Prolonged exposure causes edema of respiratory tract and suffocation.

Did you know that EPA reports that 5 to 10 million household cleaning poisonings are reported. Many are fatal. Most are children. These household cleaners have been linked to allergies, headaches, depression, skin disorders, hyperactivity, learning disabilities, and cancer; to name a few. Each year, Americans pour 28 million gallons of polluted water down their drains (EPA). More than 60% of groundwater and soil contamination comes from home pollutants.

Children, especially the very young, are more vulnerable to many toxins because of their physiology and their higher metabolic rate; and because they have greater exposure - most of it in the home. Children suffer more respiratory illnesses; their frequently blocked nasal passages make them do more mouth breathing; which doesn't filter out particles the way nose breathing does. In addition, the brain blood barrier that protects the human brain from some toxic chemicals is not completely formed in the infant. Once inside the brain, agents toxic to the nervous tissue can have devastating effects which can lead to learning disabilities.

I would like to encourage you to eliminate all harmful cleaning products from your home. In addition, it is also important to monitor the purchase and use of art materials. Children should have only nontoxic products that carry the AP or CP label from the Art and Craft Materials Institute.

Create a healthier home for your family. Find a company you can trust that will protect your family from toxins and show respect for the environment and future generations by using products that are indeed in harmony with nature. Know that as a parent, you can make choices that will make a difference in the lives of your children and for our children's children!



©2000 Suzanne Rose Lubkowski. Used by permission of author.
Contributed by Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, Wellness Consultant
Integrative Wellness
Contact zannrose@aol.com or visit
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You Never Told Me”
by Kristi Grigsby
As I sat with my Caesar salad, I wondered if my girlfriend noticed my close examination of her. While I lifted the fork to my mouth, my eyes searched for the visible signs of stress that the past year had bestowed upon me. Surely there was something there…something I hadn’t yet noticed.
Jody had been one of my closest friends for the past ten years. While we kept in close contact over the years, the hundreds of miles between us had kept us apart during the past few years. But this weekend she had made a special trip to meet my daughter who was just about to turn one.
Jody had been my confidant through it all. Her two sons were ages three and eighteen months, so in my eyes, she was a seasoned veteran to this thing called motherhood. She was always there for me – to listen, to offer advice, or to offer reassurance. But as I discovered throughout our conversation, she’d been holding out on me…in a big way! Inevitably, the stories began.
At the top of my list was breast-feeding. I had no idea how demanding it was going to be, and I knew Jody had been through it twice. “There were times when she ate every hour around the clock. I was exhausted,” I groaned. “Oh, I know,” Jody replied. “My youngest one did that to me.” Suddenly, I felt as though I was sitting across the table from a complete stranger. After all, it was strangers – unknown authors – who had prepared me to believe that my child would need to be fed every three to four hours, which in turn had led me to believe (albeit incorrectly) that I would actually get some rest in between feedings. Surely my friend would have warned me that this might not be the case. Why didn’t she tell me? I couldn’t help but think that if she had just forewarned me of the toll this demanding schedule would take on my body (not to mention my mind), I could have prevented some of the insanity that plagued my life during those first few months.
Then I told her I was shocked at the volume of hair that had fallen from my head, and that it was now finally growing back in. "Oh, I know,” she quickly responded. “My stylist called it baby balding.” Aghast, I sputtered out, “What! You never told me that….” But Jody nonchalantly interrupted with, “Yeah, it happens.” Little did she know that had she forewarned me of this, she would have prevented the panic attack I experienced in the shower one day, convincing myself that whatever was happening to my body must be terminal.
Jody turned the subject to hormones. “Did you have any postpartum depression?” I reluctantly explained how embarrassing it was for me to recall what a crazy woman I had become. By now I could have guessed that she also held this deep, dark secret before she confessed, “It’s awful, isn’t it? I had it too..”
Here she was, one of my best friends, and I couldn’t figure out why she hadn’t told me these things before. I thought to myself, “you’re my FRIEND. Doesn’t that mean you had an obligation to warn me that I was about to embark upon a journey that would turn my life upside down, and inside out…and that I would never be the same?”
The conversation continued, covering all sorts of unpleasantness from childbirth to fussy, crying infants. And through it all, I kept wondering why she hadn’t told me these things beforehand. Finally, I asked.
“Jody, why didn’t you tell me these things?” After taking her last bite of dessert, she simply explained, "you wouldn't have believed me.” And as simple as it sounded, she was absolutely right. No, I never would have believed it. And until I had experienced it for myself, I never could have imagined the amount of physical and mental endurance that is necessary to raise a baby.
As she took her last drink of cappuccino, Jody smiled at me and said, “and I never told you how much you’d love her, did I?” My eyes suddenly filled with tears, for she was right once again. The love I feel for my baby is like nothing I have ever felt before, and certainly nothing I could have imagined. And with that thought, I motioned our waiter for the check, for I couldn’t wait to get home and hold my baby.
Kristi is focusing her efforts on her family, as well as www.SendAChildASmile.com. The Send A Child A Smile program was developed to bring a smile to the face of a child who may not be feeling too special - whether it be from an illness, from a loss, or from another life event. She writes as a hobby.
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My Diary: The Making of Me
By Julie B. Carr
It’s really quite complex, this making of me. So many parts to make, so many pieces to fit together. It’s a miracle I could keep it all straight! Let me tell you how it all happened.
I started as a single cell who happened to run into a little guy looking for a date. Almost instantly, I knew whether I would be a boy or a girl, what color my hair and eyes would be and many other characteristics. It took me three days to journey to my final destination – your uterus – but it was just the perfect spot for the next 9 months and was worth the effort of getting there. My cells began to divide over and over again and after only a few weeks I had several thousand of them. All of these cells were unique, and knew exactly what their job was and what they needed to do. Some became my heart, some my skin, some my brain – they all had their assignments and got right to making whatever it is they needed to make. By week 5 my ‘house’ or amniotic sac as your doctor may call it, was about the size of a grape. By day 36, my heart began to beat and pump blood – hurray! This was my first organ to function. Day 37 you could see the beginning of my brain and backbone. Don’t laugh, but I also had a little tail. Still feeling a little queasy, Mom? I could certainly make you notice me for one so small – I was only about ¼ inch tall.
By day 42, my legs were beginning to form – they were a few days behind my arms, but quickly caught up. I just began growing by leaps and bounds and doubled my size in one week Although I was only a whopping ½ inch, I still only weighed about as much as your eyelash. By day 64, all of my design work was complete: all of my organs had already formed – and all that was left was to work on the details. You couldn’t feel me for a while, but as early as 10 weeks I was constantly moving around. Ah yes, those were the days when I had plenty of room to stretch out! By 13 weeks, I could curl my toes, bend my arms, and form a tight fist.
I still only weighed about as much as a slice of cheese as we entered into our second trimester. Now you really began to see some action – I could smile, frown, and suck my thumb, drank about a pint of amniotic fluid a day, had the hiccups, and even did somersaults. By week 16, I was about as long as a dollar bill (6 inches) and weighed around 3 ounces. I began to concentrate on the little details--such as my fingerprints-- and by week 19 you could begin to see my fingernails and toenails. My foot was about an inch long! By week 22, I was almost 11 inches, but I was still a pretty skinny kid – barely a pound. I really appreciated all the music and talking and singing you did for me - I could hear everything that was going on. By 27 weeks, I was ready to pack on the weight and gained about a pound that month. By 28 weeks, I was able to open my eyes and look around. I didn’t see much, but I could definitely make out shadows and light spots. My brain was in full swing developing hundreds of billions of nerve cells. I’ll need these if I’m ever going to get into Harvard!
By the third trimester, my body began to become more self-sufficient and I relied less and less on the placenta. About this time, it became more and more cramped, and I had to push your organs out of the way to accommodate my growing body. I got a kick out of you and Dad playing ‘name that bump’ and trying to figure out where my arms, legs, and head were positioned – you even guessed correctly a few times! Sometime around 30 weeks, I was approximately 15 inches tall and weighed 2 ½ to 3 pounds. Just a mere 3 weeks later, I was up to about 4 pounds. Boy, they *do* add up quickly, don’t they! My skin became less wrinkled, and I was getting downright chubby! That was pretty much all I did at this point – put on more weight and got bigger. By 35 weeks, I was 18 inches long and almost 5 pounds. Finally, at 38 weeks, my lungs were mature (I’ll be demon-strating their capacity soon – WAH!!)
And now, it’s the magical moment we’ve both been waiting for. I began working on this master plan of mine 40 weeks ago. If all goes according to my plan, I should be about 21 inches long and weigh about 7 ½ pounds – but I could be quite bigger or smaller too – you’ll find out real soon. It took a mere 280 days (give or take a few), but any moment now you’ll be holding your very own miracle. It may have been complicated, but I was born to do this! Thanks for your help, Mom and Dad. I can’t wait to meet you!!!
*Days are calculated starting from the first day of your LMP.
© 1999 Julie Carr. All rights reserved. Article used by permission.
Based on the pregnancy book, “Countdown to a Miracle: The Making of Me” by Julie B. Carr (Motherly Way Enterprises, Inc., copyright 1999, www.motherlyway.com $12.95)
My Diary: The Making of Me
By Julie B. Carr
It’s really quite complex, this making of me. So many parts to make, so many pieces to fit together. It’s a miracle I could keep it all straight! Let me tell you how it all happened.
I started as a single cell who happened to run into a little guy looking for a date. Almost instantly, I knew whether I would be a boy or a girl, what color my hair and eyes would be and many other characteristics. It took me three days to journey to my final destination – your uterus – but it was just the perfect spot for the next 9 months and was worth the effort of getting there. My cells began to divide over and over again and after only a few weeks I had several thousand of them. All of these cells were unique, and knew exactly what their job was and what they needed to do. Some became my heart, some my skin, some my brain – they all had their assignments and got right to making whatever it is they needed to make. By week 5 my ‘house’ or amniotic sac as your doctor may call it, was about the size of a grape. By day 36, my heart began to beat and pump blood – hurray! This was my first organ to function. Day 37 you could see the beginning of my brain and backbone. Don’t laugh, but I also had a little tail. Still feeling a little queasy, Mom? I could certainly make you notice me for one so small – I was only about ¼ inch tall.
By day 42, my legs were beginning to form – they were a few days behind my arms, but quickly caught up. I just began growing by leaps and bounds and doubled my size in one week Although I was only a whopping ½ inch, I still only weighed about as much as your eyelash. By day 64, all of my design work was complete: all of my organs had already formed – and all that was left was to work on the details. You couldn’t feel me for a while, but as early as 10 weeks I was constantly moving around. Ah yes, those were the days when I had plenty of room to stretch out! By 13 weeks, I could curl my toes, bend my arms, and form a tight fist.
I still only weighed about as much as a slice of cheese as we entered into our second trimester. Now you really began to see some action – I could smile, frown, and suck my thumb, drank about a pint of amniotic fluid a day, had the hiccups, and even did somersaults. By week 16, I was about as long as a dollar bill (6 inches) and weighed around 3 ounces. I began to concentrate on the little details--such as my fingerprints-- and by week 19 you could begin to see my fingernails and toenails. My foot was about an inch long! By week 22, I was almost 11 inches, but I was still a pretty skinny kid – barely a pound. I really appreciated all the music and talking and singing you did for me - I could hear everything that was going on. By 27 weeks, I was ready to pack on the weight and gained about a pound that month. By 28 weeks, I was able to open my eyes and look around. I didn’t see much, but I could definitely make out shadows and light spots. My brain was in full swing developing hundreds of billions of nerve cells. I’ll need these if I’m ever going to get into Harvard!
By the third trimester, my body began to become more self-sufficient and I relied less and less on the placenta. About this time, it became more and more cramped, and I had to push your organs out of the way to accommodate my growing body. I got a kick out of you and Dad playing ‘name that bump’ and trying to figure out where my arms, legs, and head were positioned – you even guessed correctly a few times! Sometime around 30 weeks, I was approximately 15 inches tall and weighed 2 ½ to 3 pounds. Just a mere 3 weeks later, I was up to about 4 pounds. Boy, they *do* add up quickly, don’t they! My skin became less wrinkled, and I was getting downright chubby! That was pretty much all I did at this point – put on more weight and got bigger. By 35 weeks, I was 18 inches long and almost 5 pounds. Finally, at 38 weeks, my lungs were mature (I’ll be demon-strating their capacity soon – WAH!!)
And now, it’s the magical moment we’ve both been waiting for. I began working on this master plan of mine 40 weeks ago. If all goes according to my plan, I should be about 21 inches long and weigh about 7 ½ pounds – but I could be quite bigger or smaller too – you’ll find out real soon. It took a mere 280 days (give or take a few), but any moment now you’ll be holding your very own miracle. It may have been complicated, but I was born to do this! Thanks for your help, Mom and Dad. I can’t wait to meet you!!!
*Days are calculated starting from the first day of your LMP.
© 1999 Julie Carr. All rights reserved. Article used by permission.
Based on the pregnancy book, “Countdown to a Miracle: The Making of Me” by Julie B. Carr (Motherly Way Enterprises, Inc., copyright 1999, www.motherlyway.com $12.95)



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Health Benefits of Fruits and Vegetables


Everyone eats Fruits and Vegetables! They are a very important part of everyday life. Fruits and Vegetables are packed with all sorts of nutrients that the body craves and needs. A growing body of research proves that fruits and vegetables are critical to promoting good health. In fact, fruits and vegetables should be the foundation of a healthy diet. Most people need to double the amount of fruits and vegetables they eat every day.
Green Fruits and Vegetables
Green fruits and vegetables are rich in essential nutrients. Some members of the green group, including spinach and other dark leafy greens, green peppers, peas, cucumber and celery, contain lutein.
There is very good evidence that the lutein in food helps protect against cataracts and macular degeneration, two common, age-related eye disorders. Lutein and another carotenoid, zeaxanthin, form the yellow pigment of the retina and absorb blue light, a harmful component of sunlight. Leafy greens like spinach and broccoli are also excellent sources of folate, a B vitamin that helps reduce risk of birth defects and helps keep our hearts healthy.
Kiwi fruit blends well with other fruits, but it is also highly satisfying (and nutritious) eaten on its own. Ounce for ounce, it is higher in vitamin C than most fruits and is a good source of potassium. Its wealth of nutrients, fiber and very low sodium and calorie content make asparagus a nutritionally wise choice for today's health-conscious consumer. Broccoli is packed with vitamins and substances that have proven to be beneficial in the prevention and treatment of many of our toughest diseases.
Green Fruits and Vegetables are:

• High in lutein and folate.

• Contain antioxidants, which have many health-promoting benefits.

• Great to maintain good vision, get strong bones and teeth, and lower some risks of certain cancers.

Below are a few recipes that include GREEN foods:

Red/Orange Fruits and Vegetables
Red and Orange fruits & vegetables are most well known for having lots of beta-carotene. Beta carotene is an antioxidant that is good for your whole body. It keeps the heart healthy and protects against cancer and other harmful diseases. Juicy and sweet and renowned for its concentration of vitamin C, oranges make the perfect snack and add a special tang to many recipes. It is no wonder that they are one of the most popular fruits in the world. Cooking carrots actually raises the nutritional benefits. The fiber in carrots can trap the beta carotene, making it difficult for your body to extract. By cooking them slightly, you free the beta-carotene, from the fiber, which allows your body to absorb it better. Eating only a half-cup serving per day will give you more than the recommended dosage of beta-carotene. Cherries are a very tasty and nutritious fruit. Cherries also contain a special phytochemical that has been shown to improve memory. Strawberries are an excellent source of fiber. One easy way to increase the consumption of these sweet treats is by adding them to different dishes such as cereal for breakfast, salad for lunch, or yogurt for dinner dessert.
Red and Orange Fruits and Vegetables are:

• A Great Source of Fiber

• High in Vitamin C

• Contain lots of Beta-Carotene

Yellow Fruits and Vegetables
Yellow fruits and vegetables are usually colored by natural plant pigments called "carotenoids." Beta-carotene in sweet potatoes, pumpkins and carrots is converted to vitamin A, which helps maintain healthy mucous membranes and healthy eyes. Scientists have also reported that carotenoid-rich foods can help reduce risk of cancer, heart disease and can improve immune system function. Bananas are also considered "white" fruits. Bananas are a perfect part of your diet and they are the most popular fruit in America. Bananas are available all year and they are a great source of instant energy whether you are watching your diet or just trying to eat healthy. Like other fruits and vegetables, bananas contain no fat, sodium or cholesterol. Corn and squash are rich sources of a phytochemical that can help prevent blindness and may also protect against some cancers. This phytochemical is what gives these vegetables their yellow color!
Yellow Fruits and Vegetables can help maintain:

• Good Vision

• A Healthy Immune System

• Healthy Skin

*Source: www.5aday.org

Tips to help you eat fruits


Select fruits with more potassium often, such as bananas, prunes and prune juice, dried peaches and apricots, cantaloupe, honeydew melon, and orange juice.
When choosing canned fruits, select fruit canned in 100% fruit juice or water rather than syrup.
Vary your fruit choices. Fruits differ in nutrient content.


As snacks:
Cut-up fruit makes a great snack. Either cut them yourself, or buy pre-cut packages of fruit pieces like pineapples or melons. Or, try whole fresh berries or grapes.
Dried fruits also make a great snack. They are easy to carry and store well. Because they are dried, ¼ cup is equivalent to ½ cup of other fruits.
Keep a package of dried fruit in your desk or bag. Some fruits that are available dried include apricots, apples, pineapple, bananas, cherries, figs, dates, cranberries, blueberries, prunes (dried plums), and raisins (dried grapes).
As a snack, spread peanut butter on apple slices or top frozen yogurt with berries or slices of kiwi fruit.
Frozen juice bars (100% juice) make healthy alternatives to high-fat snacks.


Make fruit kabobs using pineapple chunks, bananas, grapes, and berries.
Pack a juice box (100% juice) in children’s lunches versus soda or other sugar-sweetened beverages.
Choose fruit options, such as sliced apples, mixed fruit cup, or 100% fruit juice that are available in some fast food restaurants.
Offer fruit pieces and 100% fruit juice to children. There is often little fruit in “fruit-flavored” beverages or chewy fruit snacks.
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Keep it safe:
Wash fruits before preparing or eating them. Under clean, running water, rub fruits briskly with your hands to remove dirt and surface microorganisms. Dry after washing.
Keep fruits separate from raw meat, poultry and seafood while shopping, preparing, or storing.



This website will explore the health benefits of eating fruits and vegetables. For me, the key to good health is simple:

Keep your plate COLORFUL!
Color is everywhere in your food. Odds are, the brighter the color of the food, the better it is for you. So stick to this rule, and try to eat in color.

Since many of the foods we eat offer similar nutrients based on their color, this website divides foods up into various color categories and explores the benefits of eating fruits and vegetables in these colors.



It's easy!!!
In order to incorporate more healthy foods (including fruits and vegetables) into your diet, it's important to know what you're eating. Explore the various colors of fruits and vegetables on this website, and learn the benefits of eating these awesome foods.



Just a few quick facts:
Fruits and Vegetables are:

• Low in calories, fat, and cholesterol

• High in vitamins (such as vitamins A and C), minerals, and fiber

• A diet low in fat, saturated fat, and cholesterol that contains plenty of fruits and vegetables as well as wholegrain breads and cereals can reduce the risk of heart disease and cance

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Ammys Irish Cream
Just Like Baileys Irish Cream! 3 eggs
1 1/2 Tbls. chocolate syrup
1 can Eagle condensed milk
10oz. to 1 1/4 cup whiskey
1 pint coffee rich(I use half and half but Coffeemate would work)
1 heaping tsp. instant coffee(fine, not granulated)
2 or 3 drops almond extract


Blend eggs lightly in blender, add milk and chocolate and blend 3 minutes.

Add rest of the ingredients, blend 7 minutes.

It won't all fit so keep dividing and adding until all ingredients have blended together for 7 minutes.

I use my stand mixer instead of a blender.

Refrigerate.

Keep tightly closed in any container. Shake before serving.

Grate nutmeg on top of each glass.

Recipe from my grandmother.

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A baby shower is a party in which expectant parents receive gifts or money for their expected child. By convention, a baby shower is intended to help parents get things that they need for their baby (such as basic layette items), especially items they may not be able to afford. It is a fairly recent tradition in the United States and in other cultures influenced by American culture or media.

Traditionally, a baby shower is held only for the mother-to-be, and only women attend. Some baby showers remain a primarily female affair or off-limits to male guests in some Asian countries and certain religious cultures. But not strictly in the U.S. and Europe, where genders can freely mix in company, and share friendly and positive experiences of a new baby, and males shown concern on the welfare of the baby and mother-to-be.

However, many people choose to have baby showers for both parents, and some people have a men-only shower. It is not uncommon for a parent to have more than one baby shower, such as one with friends and another with co-workers. A baby shower is generally arranged by a close friend or relative of the parents-to-be. Traditionally, it was considered improper for a family member to host because the event centers on gift-giving.

Baby showers have become more common in the past few decades, as families have become smaller and each child gets more individual attention. Though they are traditionally only held for the first child, they can also be arranged for subsequent children and for children who have been adopted. It is common for the host to provide baby-themed games during the shower. In some regions, shower favors (small gifts for the guests) are common.

Not all Americans hold baby showers. For example, in Jewish tradition, nothing may be bought for the baby before it is born. But many American Jews today do not subscribe to that tradition. Many Italian-Americans also do not hold baby showers. Upper-class and lower-class Americans have a great variance in practices and themes of baby showers, but not for common party etiquette or traditional values, in holding baby shower events.

Some American religious groups have different rules and morals in what makes a baby shower or simply an event to commemorate the birth of a new baby. Some people prefer to hold showers after the birth of the baby. Some believe that giving gifts before the baby can be bad luck, because there can be a stillbirth or a miscarriage. Others believe the concept of celebrating a coming child don't always need baby showers or it's more of a private family event.


[edit] Baby shower activities and themes
While there are no set guidelines for what constitutes a baby shower, there are some traditional activities that are common at baby showers. Often, showers are luncheon or afternoon tea parties. While the most important part of the gathering is just gathering the mother-to-be's friends and family around her to celebrate the coming of a baby, activities, games, food and drinks give guests something to do and serve as ice-breakers for those guests who are unacquainted or invited in hopes to win new friendships.

Baby showers, like bridal showers and bachelorette parties, are becoming more open to new ideas, concepts, themes, games and changes in social etiquette in a party situation. Once it wasn't really acceptable in the US for a mom-to-be to allow guests to rub her pregnant tummy, or partially reveal her swollen belly, until the comfort of a mom-to-be to do this changed since the 1970's. Today, if permitted by her and guests asked politely, tummy-rubbing is now a baby shower event, shows a change in attitude of being open about pregnancy.

Traditionally baby shower are not given for the third or children following, and sometimes not even for the second, but as the western world move into a more untraditional society have baby showers for multiple pregnancies are becoming more socially acceptable. Baby showers are increasingly popular in Africa, Asia and Latin America, but are "women-only" social gatherings (especially in the Middle East due to social mores in the Islamic culture about casual contact of the opposite sexes) in more undeveloped countries not much influenced by American or western culture.

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In India, a long history of celebration parties or ritual observances in the Hindu religion are held resembles a modern baby shower. It is traditionally held in the seventh month, i.e. 28-32 weeks of pregnancy. In earlier times it was a function which was organized and attended by women only. Nowadays due to India's level of western influences and more found in upper-class or professional castes, in many times both genders of the family and friends circle are included in this function. It's also a function to celebrate the expected arrival of the baby and present the parents-to-be with gifts appropriate for the expectant newborn as well as either of the parents-to-be.

All races and cultures celebrate a new baby in many ways, even they don't have western-style baby showers. Minority groups in the US, like African Americans, and Native American groups also have baby showers, but some racial or ethnic groups have noticable cultural variances than white/Anglo Americans. Some baby showers can celebrate in a mode to exhibit their heritage or "roots" by borrowing games and rituals from tribal-ancestral African and/or Native American traditions similar to modern baby showers.
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Some classic activities at baby showers include:

Baby shower bingo.
Guess the due date ... or guess the sex (boy/girl) in some baby showers.
Guess the expectant mother's girth: guests cut pieces of ribbon or yarn to a length they believe matches the mom-to-be's tummy circumference. Another similar game is tying a string around her abdomen, and if it breaks for one person, it's expected she or he's the next new parent.
Guess the baby food flavor: guests have to taste-test several flavors of baby food and try to identify them.
Other games include a diaper throw game, but the diapers have candies or chocolate stuff.
Usually, at a baby shower the guest of honor opens the gifts in front of the other guests. This allows everyone to admire the tiny clothing and fun baby gear. Baby shower cakes are traditional, though any type of food or beverage might be served.